Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Prayer Time with Kids

I have always struggled to have a meaningful prayer time with Elizabeth. I know part of it is that she's young, but part of it is that I haven't figured out the best way to go about it. I keep trying, though, and some of my approaches have had success. Here are a few of the things I've tried:
  • Introducing the prayer by saying, "We get to talk with God tonight, the Creator of the whole universe. What do you want to talk with Him about?"
  • Praying "Thank You" prayers where we go back and forth saying what we're thankful for
  • Confessing, "Oh, honey, I need to talk with God now. Will you join me?"
  • Keeping a list of praise/worship songs that are meaningful to me so that I can use them and not forget the words. We take turns picking a song and singing together.
  • Asking what we should pray about before starting to pray
  • Working prayer into everyday life for owies, scares, bad dreams, car trips, etc.
Tonight I went about asking for prayer requests in a really grown-up way: "How can I pray for you tonight?" Then I helped with cues: "What should we thank God for? What do you need God's help with?" (This actually brought up an incident at school that I had not previously known about!) Then I suggested a few prayer requests that Elizabeth could pray for about Isaac and me. This led to one of our better prayer sessions together, so I wanted to share it with you, too!

I'm excited to work a better prayer routine into my preschool class when I return in the fall. I'll continue the rotating job of "Snack Pray-er" to encourage praying aloud in front of people, but I want to add in a time of sharing prayer requests and praying for each other. We might switch it up, but I've thought of making a "Prayer Tent" (a sheet over a table or two) to make a different, special place to pray. I also want to try "Prayer Pages," simplified journaling/drawing where we write down or draw our requests and go back later to see how God has been working.

4 comments:

Katrina Custer said...

If I ever have kids, can you come live with us and teach me? You're so creative and so intentional about teachable moments and including God in their lives.

The Lindell Family said...

You've got some great ideas! I may steal some of them in the future :)

Right now we just ask Jackson if he wants to pray. It's so cool to hear what's on his little heart and mind.

J mom said...

Great ideas and a great reminder to instill on our children just how great our God truly is!

Bob Ryan said...

Very good ideas! And knowing Elizabeth, I can see how they can work. Good job of making prayer an everyday part of life.